Recently, I've been seeing a lot of soul mate connections for my clients and have implemented a renewal of communication to my soul mate. Having this on my mind, I thought perhaps other people might also be interested in the subject of soul mates.
First of all, we connect with other people on many different levels spiritual, intellectual, physical, emotional, purpose, and life path. Not every soul mate will connect on all of these levels. Some will connect on just one level. You will feel a very strong bond with this person but only on that one level. The term soul mate, as it is generally perceived, usually indicates that you connect on four or five of these levels with the same person. A relationship with someone where you are connecting on this many levels is rare and can be pretty overwhelming as well as unforgettable.
A soul mate connecting on multiple levels of four or more is someone who can literally "knock your socks off." This person will alter your life in previously unconsidered ways. This is the person that you would follow through hell and high water to be with. This is what is referred to as a "twin" soul. This person can know you better than you know yourself and vice-versa. This is the person that romance novels, movies, and songs are written about. Once, you have connected with a twin soul, you lose interest in forming others. The others pale in comparison. The intensity is so much deeper in a twin soul relationship, that often the participants initially try to fight it. This is particularly true if they have a history of disappointments in love. But, regardless of how hard they try to fight it, the feelings remain ever strong and they keep coming back together until they learn to accept and enjoy the ride. If one or both of the participants decides to continue to deny and fight the strength of these connections, it can actually have disastrous effects on their health and happiness. However, if they take the chance and embrace the connection, the opposite is true. It gives increased joy, energy, and vitality to each.
It is possible to have more than one relationship of this intensity, but the bonds are usually in different areas. For instance with a favorite parent or best friend, you could be bound in all ways except the physical or romantic.
Not everyone meets their twin soul during their lifetime. Even some who do, it doesn't come early - it comes later in life. Of course, some people meet them earlier but deny it because of other commitments. Frequently, they are able to get together later when the commitments and responsibilities to others are dissolved. There are a lucky few who actually meet their soulmate early in life, recognize them and live a life full of happiness together.
It is estimated that 25% of marriages that take place are twin soul relationships. These are the lucky ones. After 50 years of marriage, they are as much in love as they were when they first met. They go through the trials and tribulations in life and are still very much in love. But, for this to happen, both people have to accept the intensity of the love and commit to it and embrace it as the rare gift that it is.
Some people are afraid of this intensity and deny these relationships because a connection that is less strong also makes them less vulnerable and they feel more in control. And, they are, but they also have less joy. If they have met and denied that soulmate, their health usually suffers as they feel stress more intensely and they can literally develop heart problems or fade away energetically because of a "broken heart."
So, there are some who don't want to meet their soul mate. They want to play it safe and maintain control over their lives. They don't want to give up a part of themselves to another person and so they keep themselves distant. They think they will be happier this way. They think they won't be divided. But, are they? What do you think? In being separate from the one you know to be your soul mate, you feel a very deep sense of sadness, emptiness, and incompleteness that nags at you.
When you are with your soul mate, you feel energized by their presence. It is as if a light comes on when they are around. You feel you can accomplish all you need to do. You feel joy and happiness toward all those around you. You are happy so you want everyone else to be so also. You want your soul mate to be happy, too, so you do whatever it takes to make that so. You sacrifice for that person's welfare, you can't imagine a life without them in it. You know that love can conquer all. And, it can conquer some pretty huge obstacles. Through it all the love and the connection remains. Years can go by and the connection is still there ever strong. It transcends separation, distance and death.
Now, in the current period of longer lives, busier and more eventful lives, and much spiritual work to do and karma to complete before the major changes that are coming, many people are incarnated without their soul mates. This is because they have much work to do while they are here. In these instances, the soul mates are on the other side helping them from the spirit realm.
So, if you are lucky enough to be one of the 25% of people who are actually able to connect with a twin soul, please cherish them. Don't deny the connections but embrace them and see them as a gift from spirit to help you through life's ups and downs. Take the chance to be truly deeply happy.
Affirmation for Day: I am released from all the negatives that are keeping us apart. I am now united with my perfect soulmate in perfect communication, love, harmony, peace, understanding and commitment. Only GOOD exists between us now. I am grateful for this blessing in my life.
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